Something I had to ask in here (feels like the most appropriate forum).
I am feeling so disappointed lately! For years I've been quite overweight, but really very fit at the same time.
When I started losing weight, the fat I had which used to be really tight, started becoming more fluid and squishy.
While I should be elated about this, as it means that fat is moving away, I'm not so happy at all. Because it made me realize how far I still have to go and meanwhile I'm stuck with a body that actually now looks more Fugly to me than before, when the fat was so much more dense and hard packed and... I made the mistake of confusing that hard packed fat with .... gasp muscle!
Like my quads : they looked way more muscular and now at the wrong point of view are 'thin' when it comes to the muscles with lots of flab.
Same for the upper arms: again.. the arm looked neat and with compact muscle.. now it's jiggly.
Anyone here who went through the same and what did you do to motivate yourself? Does the excess skin ever go away or do I need to get everything tucked? I know I need a tummy tuck eventually (there's too much excess skin) but how about the legs & arms?