Hey folks So we are having Thanksgiving this weekend,my husband and I are going to my mother's on Saturday night for dinner. I ask her what I can bring, of course she says nothing, but then her menu is all the bad stuff, glazed baby carrots, sweet potato (brown sugar and butter of course) green bean casserole and pies for dessert, I even offered to bring a sugar free/ crustless pumpkin pie. Again she has shot me down. I have asked her to leave carrots aside without the sugar and butter and plain beans. Now she is suggesting that if I am not going to be eat all the gooey fattening stuff to save it for when I cook a meal. Nice, thanks mom. I have a brother in law that is obese, diabetic, hig blood pressure, high cholesterol that has been trying to watch his diet. It isn't like I am the only one. So I will bring my own to her place. Sorry I am a little mad about this, has anyone else dealt with this before ?